Hi. I came about your website from an article I read "Now I lay me down to sleep". I too lost newborn infant son -now 17years ago- My heart goes out to you as I know how it feels. About 3years after Ruebens' death, I was doing my meditation and out of know where words were spoken " I am okay Mom" Well, I jumped up but no one was there.My house was silent. Up to this point I was always wondering if he was okay and where he was and greiving terribly stil. After I heard that I knew it was him telling me he was okay. Since that day I was a totally new person. I will never forget him, but I know he is okay and is always a heartbeat away. What you are doing I think is wonderful. Yes, it gets easier, but know that she is in a wonderful place